I'm sorry you are having problems. I can't find out the old password, but I can reset it for you, and you can then change it to something safer that you can remember.
I'll look at the password reminder as well. It may be that I've disabled it. I'm having problems with spammers trying to join the various sites, and it's a massive waste of my time, so I've been trying to make it difficult for them.
>>>> PM sent with new password.